February 2008, a petite girl had an interview with Ms. Yana (our former Guest Relations Manager) and though she was hesitant to get the job, I told her that if she doesn't mind standing, then she can do the job. Back then she wanted to be a waitress, I wonder if she still does.
Anyway, fast forward 2010. She is still the same person she was back then, childlike and childish. A lot of people think she is flirty and she jokingly told me once, "I'm the Best slut in town!" referring to one Filipino soap opera which starred Anne Curtis way back.
At first glance, you will think of her as a wet puppy (men are drawn to her damsel in distress aura) but she is really feisty and stubborn and oftentimes, misunderstood.
She really is just like you, vulnerable. And like me, a person you love to hate. Hahahaha!
I have heard from the grapevine, she has been with a handful of men. Sorry, I stand corrected. BOYS. Men don't grow up, they just grow old. Peace Beamer!
Four months ago, she started a relationship with a guy whom she thought (or perhaps the guy claimed) would be different from the rest. The guy she thought would end her worries and start a new life with. This new found love engulfs her being, added sparkle in her eyes, vivid colors surround her and played music in the air. Suddenly all that brought her pain was forgotten, faith was renewed and hope was restored.
Most recently, a devastating news about a break-up was posted on Facebook.
My dear dear Wendy. Let me impart some of the knowledge I have gained by reading books and experience (amalgamation of friends loves lost and mine as well) which may (or may not) bring some senses on your being.
My dear dear Wendy. Let me impart some of the knowledge I have gained by reading books and experience (amalgamation of friends loves lost and mine as well) which may (or may not) bring some senses on your being.
We can never force anyone to love us, Not even if we know HYPNOSIS!
I know that you are hurt. But haven't you learned from the past experiences you've had? Men come and go but don't lose hope. One of these days you will realize that before you look for someone to complete you, you have to first love yourself and be ready for the man who will stick with you on times of crisis and struggle.
You are always saying you do not have luck with men. That it always END. That History repeat itself. MAN repeat HISTORY. You are the captain of your ship and the master of your soul. Do not let any MAN belittle your soul. Before we impose respect from others, you have to respect yourself first.
Yes, you are right. You are a masochist! You love pain and the drama it brings. Well, it is time for you to grow up, my dear! It is time to stand with your own two feet. It is time for you to let go. It is time.
Do not force yourself to someone who doesn't even have the balls to tell you eye to eye. Do not let yourself down for someone who do not even have enough courage to tell you the reason why he would like to choose a different path without you on his side. Do not force yourself to someone who cannot stay with you just because he opted to listen to gossip and backstabbing friends. Do not force yourself to someone who is not worthy of whatever it is that you can offer, be it loyalty and devotion or Companionship and Y'know~The Cookie. Whatever is that you are lingering on and keeping you from letting go, It will all boil down to this: A bad beginning deserves a bad end. Look for a person who is deserving of all the things that you can offer and give and someone who will be faithful to you as you are to them.
Wallow in self-pity, cry a river if you must, then gather yourself because nothing good will ever happen to this unrequited love. You love him. He might have cared for you at one point, but he doesn't love you. If he does, he would never believe all the gossips in the world. He will only listen to you. He will trust you. He will be there for you. He will stick with you. He will be your ally. He will be your strength. He will hold your hand if you are sad and kiss your worries away. His arms will be your home.
BUT HE IS NOT! Wake up Girl! What kind of closure do you still need?
I know that you are hurt. But haven't you learned from the past experiences you've had? Men come and go but don't lose hope. One of these days you will realize that before you look for someone to complete you, you have to first love yourself and be ready for the man who will stick with you on times of crisis and struggle.
You are always saying you do not have luck with men. That it always END. That History repeat itself. MAN repeat HISTORY. You are the captain of your ship and the master of your soul. Do not let any MAN belittle your soul. Before we impose respect from others, you have to respect yourself first.
Yes, you are right. You are a masochist! You love pain and the drama it brings. Well, it is time for you to grow up, my dear! It is time to stand with your own two feet. It is time for you to let go. It is time.
Do not force yourself to someone who doesn't even have the balls to tell you eye to eye. Do not let yourself down for someone who do not even have enough courage to tell you the reason why he would like to choose a different path without you on his side. Do not force yourself to someone who cannot stay with you just because he opted to listen to gossip and backstabbing friends. Do not force yourself to someone who is not worthy of whatever it is that you can offer, be it loyalty and devotion or Companionship and Y'know~The Cookie. Whatever is that you are lingering on and keeping you from letting go, It will all boil down to this: A bad beginning deserves a bad end. Look for a person who is deserving of all the things that you can offer and give and someone who will be faithful to you as you are to them.
Wallow in self-pity, cry a river if you must, then gather yourself because nothing good will ever happen to this unrequited love. You love him. He might have cared for you at one point, but he doesn't love you. If he does, he would never believe all the gossips in the world. He will only listen to you. He will trust you. He will be there for you. He will stick with you. He will be your ally. He will be your strength. He will hold your hand if you are sad and kiss your worries away. His arms will be your home.
BUT HE IS NOT! Wake up Girl! What kind of closure do you still need?
Here are a few of EMO songs you need on your OFF:
*Anything for you by Aiza Seguerra (This is your Present State of Mind)
*On my Own by Lea Salonga on Les Miserables
*Nakapagtataka by SpongeCola
*ALONE by Celine Dion
*Sa Isip Koy Yakap ka Pa by Agot Isidro
*Better in time by Leona Lewis
*Anything for you by Aiza Seguerra (This is your Present State of Mind)
*On my Own by Lea Salonga on Les Miserables
*Nakapagtataka by SpongeCola
*ALONE by Celine Dion
*Sa Isip Koy Yakap ka Pa by Agot Isidro
*Better in time by Leona Lewis
*Pagsubok by Aegis (ha ha ha ha)
*The Best you Never Had by Leona Lewis
*Pagdating Ng Panahon by Aiza Seguerra (though BB do not agree as she is saying better to let go!)
*The Best you Never Had by Leona Lewis
*Pagdating Ng Panahon by Aiza Seguerra (though BB do not agree as she is saying better to let go!)
*Pakisabi na lang by Aiza Seguerra
*I want you to Need Me by Celine Dion
*CRY by Faith Hill
*Half Crazy by Freestyle
*Somebody To Love by Glee Cast
*Separate lives by Nina
*Half Crazy by Freestyle
*Somebody To Love by Glee Cast
*Separate lives by Nina
*Broken Vow by Lara Fabian
*Let the Pain Remain by Lea Salonga
*Tell Me by Lea Salonga
*The Art of Letting Go by Mikaila
*Muli by Parokya ni Edgar
*I dont Know How to Love Him by Sarah Brightman on Jesus Christ Superstar
*Superstar by Carpenters
*Someones Always Saying Goodbye by Toni Gonzaga
*Let the Pain Remain by Lea Salonga
*Tell Me by Lea Salonga
*The Art of Letting Go by Mikaila
*Muli by Parokya ni Edgar
*I dont Know How to Love Him by Sarah Brightman on Jesus Christ Superstar
*Superstar by Carpenters
*Someones Always Saying Goodbye by Toni Gonzaga
Download this on LIMEWIRE and get a bottle of Vodka, guaranteed no hangover.
Believe me, It will all get BETTER IN TIME.
My name is Leya...and I am a shoe-paholic with an advice: WHAT DOES NOT KILL YOU MAKES YOU STRONGER.
Wendy Wendy Wendy...look for Peter Pan in the never never neverland...lol
ReplyDeleteFairy tales are for kids. Princesses are born. If someone thinks of you as a princess then you are nothing but a second best, because if someone should treat you properly, you should be regarded to as the queen. lol
ReplyDeleteok... i agree with you
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